It's Come To My Attention That I Need To Clarify My Stance On Ghosting
So, it’s come to my attention that I have some kind of reputation for being the poster child for ghosting. Everyone is coming at me as though I think you have the right, nay, the responsibility to ghost someone you’ve been dating exclusively for 9 and a half years. So we’re clear, I am absolutely not advocating for ghosting every single situation. What i’m saying is that in CERTAIN, SPECIFIC situations, it’s far far kinder to ghost than to drag out some pathetic breakup for a relationship you don’t even have.
If you’re dating someone, please do not ghost them. If you’re fucking someone and you’ve exchanged approximately 19 words total, that’s probably fine. It’s all about knowing when and where the situation is necessary and/or appropriate. For those of you who may be confused on what situations are ghost-appropriate, I’ve created a flowchart to help you determine whether or not you should be ghosting your mans.